Ever wondered how guys like Seth Rogen, Jack Black, or Kevin James (granted he looks like a giant cuddly panda, but still) keep landing so many hot girls in each of their movies? And, it’s not just the movies either.
Look around. The whole world is replete with examples of men considered to be unattractive by convention, but who still walk around with much more attractive girlfriends and wives than themselves!
This is a “fact”, and it holds true for men from every walk of life – be it politics, sports, entertainment, literature, journalism or even science. Look at Julia Roberts. Do you think she married Lyle Lovett for his looks? Salman Rushdie, who has no Greek god looks, had the gorgeous Padma Lakshmi as his wife for four years. And what about Putin? Have you seen his hot new girlfriend? There are plenty of examples of this “Anti-Darwinian” phenomenon that exists in the world all around us.
The bottom line: ugly guys get pretty girlfriends ALL THE TIME!
(Note: We know these are all famous people, but these examples were included so every man reading this could relate to the point this article makes!)
So what exactly works “right” for all these “wrong” men, when it comes to women? Is there any reason at all for this unusual trend? Or should we just attribute it to one of nature’s whimsical occurrences, and forget about it?
Some ugly guys get pretty girlfriends because they simply make the decision to get that part of their life handled, no matter what it takes. They make no excuses, and they take full advantage of programs like the GFAS, which are specially designed to help all kinds of men get and keep incredible girlfriends.
But there’s also something else going on that allows ugly men to get pretty girlfriends…
What Does Science Say About How To Get A Pretty Girlfriend If You’re Ugly?
Dr. Rob Brooks, a lead researcher at the University of South Wales (Australia), says “Ugly individuals can sometimes do better than good-looking ones.” The reason? A special molecule present in the immune system of our body, the MHC molecule.
The main role of MHC molecules is to fight off any advent of disease in the human body. However, what makes it interesting (and relevant to our subject here), is that women tend to get more attracted to men with a more diverse composition of MHC molecules, and to those whose MHCs complement their own.
So there you go, like it or not, it’s not our looks that decide whether someone is attractive or not!
“But what chance do I have against the college heart throb?!”
We hear you. Turns out you’ve got yourself one heck of a chance with attractive women (or women in general anyway)! How? Well, not one but FOUR reasons exist for our confident reply -:
i) Advantage Of Surprise
An attractive woman always has her guard up against men, lest her slightest interest in any of them gets construed as an invitation for something serious! However, this doesn’t hold true for those men she considers to be unattractive or even out and out ugly.
This is because she feels an ugly guy will never hit on her, considering how ugly he knows he is! This is where you can score and score big. Surprise her (not creep her out, mind you) with an unexpected level of confidence and charm, and you are in.
ii) Advantage Of Zero Assumptions
When women find an attractive man in a crowd of people, they automatically make certain assumptions about him (he must be shy/gay/a womanizer), based solely upon his looks. This is where you hold an advantage over the attractive men.
No women will profile you or make assumptions about you, based on your looks. For them, you will just be “ugly”, not shy, not gay, not nothing. This gives you a clean slate in every romantic or social encounter.
iii) Advantage Of Being Well-Rounded
The world is a lot nicer to attractive people. That’s a fact. All the ugly people get it. And that’s the reason you find 90% of the rich and famous to be unattractive (actors, rockstars, and models are a minority, trust us).
People who are born less attractive, tend to spend more time in other useful activities and, therefore, often turn out to be more intelligent than their more handsome counterparts. The number of hours a good looking man wastes per week grooming himself is what the unattractive man uses for improving himself internally.
iv) Advantage Of Being At A Loss Already
As an unattractive or downright ugly guy, you really don’t have anything to lose by approaching attractive women. By the time you are grown up, you’ve already heard enough NOs throughout your life from pretty girls (or boys) who might use your looks as a reason not to be your friend.
So, if a beautiful woman turns down your invitation, you are prepared for it beforehand. It’s nothing you haven’t handled before, so you take it in stride, move on, and don’t worry about it.
This is not true for attractive men. They take every “no” from a woman to heart, as they are not used to it. Advantage: You!
But even with all these inherent advantages, you still need to apply your best self when courting an attractive woman.
So, how do you apply yourself out there in the dating world?
i) Appear Confident
All you really need for a woman to find you attractive is to come across as a positive, pleasing man with a tremendous amount of self-belief and confidence. Always speak with a certainty and trust in your actions.
You don’t need bulging biceps or tons of cash to be attractive to a pretty woman. Learn to accept your “flaws”, and watch how beautiful women find the same flaws “sexy”.
ii) Value Yourself
If you want others to value you as a man, you must learn to value yourself first. Trust that whatever you say or do has value, if for no other reason than because it is coming from YOU. Women will learn to listen and get attracted to whatever you say or do, because it is coming from YOU.
iii) Forget About The Concept Of “Attractive” And “Ugly”
You are not in high school anymore. The false, synthetic syllogisms of “attractive” and “ugly” or “popular” and “unpopular” don’t apply to you anymore. Only a man with a stunted mental growth will insist that an “ugly” man can get a pretty girl, only if he is rich and famous.
Look around you. A beautiful, sensible woman always puts greater emphasis on confidence, maturity, sense of humor, intelligence, and responsibility over mere looks. Don’t you possess all those things that matter already?
iv) Lastly, Learn To Let Go
Learn to let go of things and people. You are ugly, not a loser. Only losers cling on to things.
Let go of “what to say” or “what to do” or ‘what to wear”. Let go of controlling her reactions. And, let go of all the outcomes and possibilities.
If you’re ugly and you want a pretty girlfriend, trust in yourself, and who you are. The rest will take care of itself!